Question: Confused on why when you are in a relationship, you have sex less often?

Answer: Sex is wonderful, but I can tell you when you're in a relationship as grand as the one I'm lucky enough to be in, the highest levels of intimacy have little to do with sex.

My conclusion: If you’re in a committed relationship with someone you love, you need three things: Trust, Communication, and Sex. Sometimes the juggling act that we call life can definitely get in the way, but something to remember (when you’re too tired, haven’t showered or whatever it may be) is that no one ever regrets doing it. When you feel it’s been too long without, take a half day off work for an afternoon delight. If the kids are at play, you sneak away for a minute to "ask Daddy something” in the garage. You return a few minutes later with sassy hair and a big smile. Get creative, get sneaky, initiate, and get. it. on.